Charming: You can’t let Cora make you lose faith in who you are, someone who does the right thing. That’s exactly what she wants!
I’m no queen. I’m no leader. I’m just a girl who lost her parents, ran away into the woods and became a bandit.
When Lily Evans told James Potter that she wouldn’t go out with him because he was a bully, he stopped bullying people and redeemed himself. When Lily told Severus Snape that she wouldn’t go out with him because he called her a racial slur, he went on to join a racist terrorist group.
Conclusion: James Potter handled rejection much better than Severus Snape does.
OUAT: a summary
The X-Files + OUAT parallels